Why are churches and their congregations blessed while children the world over are damned?

The wicked are blessed so that they can oppress true believers. If you are a true believer you are supposed to be suffering. Yea and ALL that will live Godly in Christ Jesus SHALL SUFFER PERSECUTION 2 Timothy 3:12 For unto you it is given in the behalf of Christ NOT ONLY TO BELIEVE on him but to SUFFER for his sake. Phillippians 1:29 I could go on but it is such a chore. So if you are not suffering either you are not a true believer or you are headed for a big downfall.