Is this normal for my wife to feel this way about me and my issues?

lmao, you put alot of thought into something that is just every day "business" for us all. It sound like you have a serious case of the runs. my advice is pepto bismal or any pill that binds you like immodium AD. eat FIBER alot of it. your goose sounds too loose to be normal i suggest you make an appointment with your primary care physician ASAP you have let it go on for too long.